Managing Our Own Patient
Expectations
(as aired on
HealthLink on
Air -- January through March
2008)
This is the 4th tip in a
series about communicating
better with our doctors.
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Understanding that
your doctor will spend
only 10 or 15 minutes
with you, here are
some ways to handle
the diagnostic
process – and how you
can clarify those
communications by
managing your own
expectations, too.
When
you are in the process of being
diagnosed, you may be working
with your
family doctor or internist
with whom you, hopefully, have
already established a rapport –
OR – you may be sent to a
specialist. The usual scenario
is a meeting with the doctor, a
review of symptoms and some
in-office testing – everything
from checking your blood
pressure, to drawing blood – and
eventually you may even need to
go for even more extensive
testing such as scopes or cat
scans or MRIs or even a biopsy
or exploratory surgery.
Don’t
just let your doctor send you
for those tests without asking
questions ahead of time.
Questions like, "What do you
expect to find, doctor?"
Or "What are the possible
findings?"
So –
for example – if you are having
stomach upset and a source can’t
be quickly determined, your
doctor may send you for
endoscopy or an MRI, even an
x-ray – and when she does, you
need to ask her "What will this
test tell us? What are the
possibilities?"
Your
doctor should then share the
best case scenarios, the worst
case scenarios, and everything
in the middle. Once you
understand the doctor’s
expectations, and while you are
waiting for the test results,
you can learn more about them
either on the internet, or at
the library. Being prepared with
that extra information will make
your follow up communication
with your doctor even more
productive.
Asking
"what do you expect to find" is
one more way of managing your
own expectations to make your
communication with your doctor
more effective and make YOU a
smarter patient.
Link here for a master list
of tips in this series.
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Trisha Torrey is Every Patient’s
AdvocateTM.
She offers no medical advice,
but empowers those who
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by
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